My very first long post....

Thanks 2crazydogs and Simple America for helping! 2crazydogs is right, I should learn by trial and error and also help from other bloggers, then I would be like what Simple America said "Old Pro". hahah. aha! I think I would like to be recognize as "New pro on the block".

Guess at this moment, I would just try out my blogs with what I have- "My articulate but yet superficial and honest but yet egoistic piece of mind" ( In short it's called ranting and bitching) =)
Many years ago, I had a fight ( just one of those many fights that I had) with hubby ( let's call him "OLD DUDE" ). He argued, commented and even highlighted that I was no longer the sweet, active, cheerful, soft spoken girl? ( he used the term girl coz it was many many years ago, I was
still a young girl back then), that he knew and fall in love with. Old dude also said that I have changed so much in my character wise; that I am such a control freak, bossy, grouchy and bitchy...whoah! So true! Guess this is the most honest moment throughout our many many years of relationship. To tell the truth, I was hurt and furious at this kind of honesty but yet embarassed with the truth of what he said that I have becoming. My alter ego just went straight to sub-zero. I wanna cry out loud at that very moment but I did not! Being an egoistical and
opinionated bitch, I told Old Dude, in case he needed to vent his frustrations, he could call me a bitch at that very second, right in front of my Goddess like face, however; he have to comprehend and acknowledge that I am not just an ordinary bitch and insisted that if he must, he have to call me a "SUPER BITCH". I am not gonna settle anything for less especially when come to name calling. haha! Old Dude then started laughing so hard and said he gave up, he does make sense this time around too, saying that it doesn't matter whatever comment, issue that he brought up, because I will win all the time. Guess Old Dude does realized after all, I am a "SUPER BITCH".

SUPER

B=Babe I= In T=Total C= Control H= of Herself.

That's who I am....On another note, some friends of mine also did mentioned about their hubby making comments and remarks that, the "WIFEY" changed after marriage, that the "WIFEY" is no longer the soft spoken, caring, sweet, blah, blah blah wifey. What about the "HUBBY" themselves? Does the "HUBBY" ever takes a little fraction of their time to ponder about themselves and accept the fact that the "WIFEY" submissively accept the "HUBBY" changes too be it physically, emotionally or character wise?!

As "Heraclitus" once said " Nothing is permanent except changes"! In my opinion, the fundamental issue to a healthy strong lasting relationship is to be honest with each other. Something that could be compromise should be compromise, yet something that could be ignore should be ignored. Cold shoulder towards the spouse is also very comment when the truth is out, and unfortunately, that is also one of my forte. No wonder Old Dude let me win all the time, coz he told me that he is very afraid of the cold shoulder and silent treatment that I gave him...phew!!! What a long post! Talking about relationship is tiring and brain damaging!